Having Twins – The truth about having and growing twins
September 2, 2009 by Alberto Abudara
Filed under pregnancy
When you tell somebody that you are expecting twins, you will likely receive an answer like this: Oh! Twins! That’s lot of work. Good luck !
Is it so difficult to grow twins ? In the following paragraphs we will discuss that topic.
We cannot say that having twins is easy, specially in the first days. The best thing you can do is to have a routine, writing down everything that each one of the kids did at each time, for example at which time you change diapers to one of them. Organization is fundamental.
In the case of twins, there is no option for the father. He has to help. It is impossible for the woman to survive feeding, changing diapers, and play with them alone. The father needs to help in some or all those tasks.
Having twins is a great experience if you keep everything organized and the father helps.
Twins are not always synonym of more work. Many times parents with kids of different age have more work.
First of all, two non twins require two pregnancies and two different periods of time where you sleep few hours.
Also, when they grow up, they will have different interests and activities. Twins will like similar activities, and can share most of the friends. When you go to the doctor, you can take them together to the same doctor at the same time, because the examinations will be the same.
Another item to consider is money. At first, you may think that twins represent much more money than single kids, but that is not always true.
At first, you will need to spend much more money with twins because you have to buy everything double: strollers, beds. However, you can usually find discounts for these type of items if you are buying for twins. In addition, certain activities, such as birthdays, can be celebrated at the same time, saving a lot of money.
Having twins is not easy, but you will survive. The key is to be an organized person and have enough help to enjoy one of the most wonderful things in the world.
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Having Twins – How to grow twins from a father’s point of view
August 4, 2009 by Alberto Abudara
Filed under pregnancy
Instead of congratulating them immediately, people seem to be worried about the work the parents expecting twins will have after birth.
But is it really so hard? In this article I will try to answer that question.
It is undeniable that in the first moments having twins is very difficult. Organization is the key to survive. Writing the time of feeding, changing diapers for each one of the twins will turn to be essential.
The father has a much more important role in the case of twins. With only one child, many fathers often don’t help too much, but in this situation he has to help to feed , bath or change diapers, for example.
Considering the organization and the help of the father, having twins can be great.
Twins are not always synonym of more work. Many times parents with kids of different age have more work.
First, if you have two kids of different ages, you will have problems to sleep in two different periods of your life.
Also, when they grow up, they will have different interests and activities. Twins will like similar activities, and can share most of the friends. When you go to the doctor, you can take them together to the same doctor at the same time, because the examinations will be the same.
On the other hand, the economic implications should be considered. Although it seems you will have to spend much more when you are having twins, it is not completely true.
Of course, at first you will have to buy two items of everything, strollers, beds, cribs, as time passes you will realize that you can save money. There are lots of places where you can receive a discount if you buy for twins; you celebrate both birthdays on the same day and place, saving a lot of money.
Having twins is not easy, but you will survive. The key is to be an organized person and have enough help to enjoy one of the most wonderful things in the world.

