Breaking your Smoking Habit
May 18, 2009 by Amber Eamen
Filed under Smoking and Pregnant
One of the hardest things to do in life is to quit smoking. The habit of smoking itself is often cited by most people as being the hardest part. Try replacing your smoking habit with a much healthier habit to aid in quitting smoking for good. Also, it’s important to remember that it will take time to get use to your new healthy habit just as it took time for you to get use to smoking.
If you are determined to quit smoking, you have made an impressive start. However, if you have decided to quit on your own, you are doing even better. Sounds strange does it? You would be surprised at just how many people decide to quit smoking by being informed by their doctor, spouse, parent, sibling or friend that they will be quitting. In order to successfully quit smoking for good you need to decide for yourself to quit. If you have actually made this decision on your own, you are doing an amazing job. If you are letting someone push you into quitting you are just setting yourself up for headaches, hassles and complications that are easily avoided.
A developed pattern in the way one smokes is something every smoker has. If you start smoking a pack a day, this becomes one of your habits. Breaking your smoking habit wil be easier if you start out with small steps. Success wil come if you change your habits slowly. Instead of smoking your usual cigarette after a meal, try brushing your teeth. You may realize you like the fresh mouth over the cigarette tasting one and this soon becomes a healthy habit. Chew gum or suck on hard candy if you are not able to brush your teeth after a meal.
You might find yourself in circumstances that trigger cigarette cravings. Of course, it is best to try to avoid these situations but sometimes that is impossible. Try to have an alternative to smoking if you can. For example, if you smoke right after work, carpool with others that don’t smoke, take a different route home, stop at the store, or take the bus. Also if getting in your car triggers cravings, have it detailed to get the smoke smell out. Just try to do something different to help you forget your cravings and they will soon pass.
Often times you will find yourself in positions that will make breaking your smoking habit difficult. By having a way to deal with these unavoidable times, you will be one step closer to quitting. Two of the popular methods for this include nicotine gum and stop smoking sticks. The nicotine gum is beneficial in public places and can be discreet. The stop smoking sticks are basically pretend cigarettes that keep your hands busy. If you find these helpful, you may be smoking more just because your hands are bored. Give your hands something more productive to do and this may at least help some of your smoking issues.
Breaking your smoking habit is a difficult process. It is likely to take you anywhere from a couple of weeks to several months to be cigarette free. Try cutting back on how many cigarettes you smoke daily if quitting cold turkey seems impossible. But regardless which method you choose, it will take time and effort for it to work. It takes on average 2 weeks to get use to a new habit and just as long if not longer to quit a bad habit.
Why You Should Quit Smoking For Good
May 17, 2009 by Amber Eamen
Filed under Smoking and Pregnant
With all of the unpleasant effects that smoking results, it is a wonder how many people still continue to smoke. Apart from the physical effects that unarguably are the most common negative effects of smoking, one could think of plenty of reasons why this habit should be kicked for good. It is important to take advantage of these reasons since there must be good reasons behind forcing yourself to quit. Quitting just when the impulse tells you is not the right way to start. It would, more likely than not, lead you to feel mad and discouraged that you have not accomplished what you envisioned to be possible.
Just by checking on your health, you would already find the reasons why you have to quit smoking. The list of dreadful diseases that smoking does to the body is quite long - lung cancer, heart problems, cancer of the larynx, high risk of heart attack and stroke. All of these potential problems that make a smoker prone to have should have been enough to scare people and make them vow never to pick a pack of cigarettes ever again. But, there are still those who continue to smoke and who seem not to be afraid. They feel that they cannot just stop smoking, or they are unable to stop because of the strong hold of nicotine addiction.
Breaking free from cigarette smoking is never known to be easy. Take a look at yourself in the mirror. Is that the kind of image that you would like to project to your kids? Most people would strongly say that they would not want their children to be smokers. If you engage in your habit at their presence what kind of modelling are you doing? The sad truth is parents who smoke have the greater likelihood of having children who also smoke. Try as you might, you have to work diligently to be a good example, which means you have to quit smoking yourself.
Many smokers find their health already complaining thus they need to quit. Most often the decision to quit already comes too late. Their health has already been damaged and sometimes the consequence is giving up their life, and not just their pack of cigarettes. But even then, making the supreme sacrifice of quitting is not honestly an attractive idea for most people.
It is a personal decision to quit and it is something that comes from the inner longing of the heart to change. It is certainly futile to have someone force you to quit. But it is to your benefit if you listen to the warning of people, particularly doctors, of how dangerous smoking can be to your health. Disregarding these well-meant warnings may just be to your ruin. The devastating effects of smoking will not only be on your health but also on your family. It is heartbreaking and stressful to have a smoker member in the family who smokes and who suffers its damaging consequences.
If you have checked your lifestyle as well as that of your family and want to improve both, the answer is very simple. If you make an honest and sincere effort to quit, you can immediately see the positive effects - huge improvement on health, a renewed relationship with your family, because you have shown them that you deeply care enough that you struggle just to beat the habit. Your family surely depends on you for guidance, support and love, and what better way to make them see you as dependable than seeing you in good health and free from a bad habit. It is important then that you make up your mind of the good reasons why you should quit so you can be on your way to successfully stop smoking.
How Many Attempts Do You Need to Quit Smoking for Good
May 15, 2009 by Amber Eamen
Filed under Smoking and Pregnant
It certainly fires up the interest of many people to know exactly how many times would it take to attempt to quit smoking. Being able to grasp the number of tries is very important. You might wonder what this information can give you. This actually hopes to build your confidence when you have already decided a date that would set you to the task of quitting. If you have a good idea of the number of times that you have to attempt before you could really be successful, it will prevent you from being frustrated when you know that a single attempt cannot do it.
The majority of those who attempted to stop smoking would honestly tell you that sometimes it takes two attempts to succeed. While many people would readily give up on the first failure, it is better to give your venture another chance. You might ask why two attempts are necessary but the logic is very simple. Many people fail in their first try because they really thought that the whole process of quitting smoking is just simple. They have the surprise in their lives when in the program they realized, it is not that simple after all! They were caught off-guard with no preparation to battle against different problems which emerged.
Cutting the addiction to nicotine is never easy and it is wishful thinking to expect to succeed on the first try. If you are used to doing things on your own, quitting smoking without asking help from other people might just lower your chances of success. A push and prod from people may just be necessary for you to continue to persevere in your efforts. Without any preparation and countermeasure plans in the first attempt, you are surely heading off to failure. This is the reason why it usually takes a second try to succeed in quitting. Even if you have already made many unsuccessful attempts, it is still good to plan to quit smoking.
Admitting that quitting is difficult is a good first step. If you know that you will have many challenges ahead of you, you will be in a better position to draft a plan that would counter the potential problems. Knowing exactly what are these temptations and problems as well as identifying what had influenced you to smoke in the first place, would allow you to create a suitable plan. For example, you have identified stress as the cause why you smoke, then list down the sources of this stress and as much as possible avoid any encounters with them.
If you have carefully made a plan before the actual quitting attempt begins, you are heading yourself for a successful single try. But not having a plan would increase your chances of failure and to try once again or several times. Creating a plan is attainable. It only means that you know the potential problems which will arise and you have devised countermeasures for them. Just by taking the time to really think and organize your goals into a clear plan would help you overcome temptations and solve potential problems with flying colors.
Deciding to quit on a whim would certainly create problems in your efforts. Taking the time to plan would prove to be advantageous in your attempt to quit smoking. By thinking up of the little details for your plan, it can already go a long way towards your goals. Just try to be certain that these small details are well organized. You also need to have confidence too as you start in your venture. Feeling inadequate and incapable of the task would only pose greater problems for you. Trying to avoid problems or handling them well as they arise is the best formula in which a few attempts to stop smoking can work.
Successfully Stop Smoking n Four Steps
May 15, 2009 by Amber Eamen
Filed under Smoking and Pregnant
The fact that every smoker who wishes to quit smoking has to know is that breaking the habit would require a lot of personal dedication and determination. Additionally, you will encounter a lot of problems as you go along. Recognizing these potential problems and having a specific plan of how to solve them are important if you want to succeed in your efforts. Having an exact idea of how to approach the process of quitting will enable you to pick yourself up and not just readily stumble when you meet obstacles in your path.
Step 1. You need to devote a time to organize your plan of quitting smoking. This means looking for reasons which influence you to smoke and devising a plan by which you can conquer these influences. If you are addicted to smoking because of nicotine, then examine what products are you consuming which contains high level of it, then you would know how to curb your nicotine consumption. If you smoke because you are bored, then look for things that will keep you busy. However, if you smoke due to stress, better include in your plan stress-relief techniques.
Step 2. Get all the help you would need. Welcome help as they present to you such as the stop smoking aids available in the market, or the support and encouragement of your family and friends. If you have a problem of support, to begin with, then resolve these issues first. Like, when you are hard up on your budget and could not afford a nicotine gum. Save first for a couple of weeks. Once you have enough to buy, then start working on your goals.
Step 3. Monitor your progress. If you put your goals in writing, as well as the progress you are making in connection with your goals, you are making yourself accountable of the whole task. Like, if you decide to decrease your one pack a day habit to ten cigarette sticks a day, you should write down this new plan. This will make you see explicitly a new pattern of your smoking, and make you conscious of the sticks you have each day. You may find that as you track each of these cigarettes, you want to skip a few just so you would not anymore have to write it down. You have to be very honest though with yourself if you choose this method. Cheating on your log will not help you at all since the information you made is false.
Step 4. Celebrate your success. If you are able to manage a 24 hour period staying away from cigarettes, then celebrate. This does not have to be a big party in the neighbourhood for each time you meet a target but at least do something special. You might treat yourself to your favorite coffee or ice cream, or buy that book or purse you have been eyeing out. This will help you stay motivated on your plan. One day you can have that huge party or dream vacation, but only after you have successfully quit smoking for a longer period of time, say a year. This will give you a strong motivation to continue on your goal and the big savings that you got from skipping cigarettes can well afford you that trip or party.
Make sure that you follow each step wholeheartedly, and in no time, you are guaranteed to be able to join the league of those who become non-smokers in the world. Taking advantage of the help that is in your environment as well as making yourself accountable would head you to the right direction. You should also be specific of your expectation of yourself because this will help you be able to anticipate problems before they even appear. Simply waiting until problems come out is expecting a disaster. You owe it to yourself to be free from this habit. These suggestions would surely get you there in the soonest time.
Ease the Stress Associated with Quitting Smoking
May 12, 2009 by Amber Eamen
Filed under Smoking and Pregnant
Knowing how to exactly reduce the stress that goes with trying to quit smoking will not be that easy. There are just composites of factors that can stress you out in your venture that it is important for you to have some ideas of what these problems are and how they should be addressed. As it is, the struggle to quit smoking would bring you to a difficult position. Unless you know what you are getting into, you will find out just how difficult it is to succeed in your attempt. Learning the ways to relieve stress often goes together with reducing to smoke itself, thus it is natural to see that the problem of stress complicates trying to quit.
If you aim to quit smoking for real, you have to learn how to relax and lessen stress. Since your life is not contained in a shell, you have to learn, therefore, how to deal with stress. Some activities that can help you out are yoga, meditation and even an enjoyable and relaxing shower or bath. If you feel stressed out at work, give yourself a break by walking around the building or sipping that relaxing cup of tea. You have to be smart to beat stress before it breaks you down. If you do not deal well with your stress, you will find it interfering your plan to quit. Ultimately, you would end up going back to your earlier habit, smoking even more and damaging further your health.
Think of a hobby that you can engage to free yourself from stress brought by family and work. Most people have the same feeling that job do cause a lot of stress at some point. Taking a hobby that can relieve you of stress even just for awhile can be very helpful. This will allow you to come back with much vigor and a clearer mind for work. If you have no hobby at the moment, better look for one. Just be sure it is something that you find delightful and relaxing. It would be a bad idea to choose for one which reminds you a lot of your job or of other similar stressful events.
Always find time to give relaxation to yourself. Everyone needs time for solitude, especially when you are trying to quit. You need these precious moments to unplug yourself from the demands of life. If you are constantly surrounded by people, you will find your patience decreasing steadily. It would make you snap easily which then would lead to higher stress level. If you stay up 10 minutes more or get up 10 minutes earlier, you can spend these moments collecting your thoughts together.
It is a fact that many people get hooked to smoking to relieve themselves of stress. This means you have to come up with some techniques for stress relief, otherwise, your attempt might just end up in yoyo. Working to overcome the habit of smoking is not simple and easy. It involves a lot of diligence, and trying to lessen the stress in your life is a good start. If you are like most people who could not avoid stress, then try to properly handle stress. These suggestions might just help you cope with stress without trying to get another stick of cigarette again.
Using Children to Stop Smoking Successfully
May 9, 2009 by Amber Eamen
Filed under Smoking and Pregnant
You certainly realize that in trying to quit, it is easier to start smoking again than actually to stop smoking at all. Probably what pushes you to quit is trying to let your children see you as a good example. This expectation somehow makes the effort to quit, difficult for many parents. They do not want their children to grow up and get the idea that smoking is just alright, and they caught themselves pressured to quit in order to be true effective models. If this is your dilemma right now, here are some insights that you can follow to handle the situation well.
One good advice is to actually engage your child in your effort to quit smoking. This can be done by asking your child to assist you and help you to have the will power to say no when the urge to smoke is high. A simple conversation with your child can be a helpful technique by which you can relate to them your struggle. This would also allow you to thresh out your issues openly. One good thing about talking is that it has the effect of making problems seem much lighter. Just like issues that are resolved because of open and honest relationship between parents and children, smoking too would be easily overcome when talked about. While resolving on your smoking problem, you might use this opportunity to also discuss other important matters while encouraging the children to extend their support.
Giving more attention to your children and less of yourself or of where you can find your pack of cigarettes will make the urge easier to reduce. Try to ask suggestions from your child of how you can fight the urge. It may be, letting your child come with you as you search for a good cigarette substitute in the market, such as a candy, or letting your child help you find a stop smoking aid which you can buy.
Involving your children in your decisions can make them see the battle that you are in. To let your problems all bottled up would not be a good idea as this would only make the children believe that smoking or even quitting is easy. And worse, it would tempt them to smoke. Though, you try to develop an open relationship with your child but this should not give you an excuse to smoke around them. There is danger in second hand smoke and this itself should prevent you from lighting a stick when they are around. It might be good, instead, if you let your child record your consumption through a smoking log.
The reality is, each family has its own ideas of what is acceptable and comfortable for them to talk about. Be quick to adjust when you feel that the comfort level of any one member of the family has already been threatened. Do remember, however, that the involvement of your children in your struggle is often the best way to quit. Children are, after all, effective in the way they pick on people as well as spit out flaws.
By permitting your child to help you, you might find that smoking may no longer have that hold on you, especially when you are being picked on the whole time. Be alert to recognize opportunities when you can bond with your children as well as be encouraged by that bond to break free from the chain of smoking. Once you quit, your child would definitely be beaming with pride and you will emerge with much greater confidence.
Get Healthier by Quitting Smoking - It’s Time to Save Your Health
May 8, 2009 by Amber Eamen
Filed under Smoking and Pregnant
Trying to quit smoking is far from easy. Reducing your consumption of cigarette sticks as well as quitting completely is a difficult process. If you have backed out many times before in your attempts, it definitely was because you encountered several problems. There is really no simple method to stop smoking. Although you might have been frustrated from all your efforts before which just turned into failures, there is still help available for you. Your trouble sticking to your quit smoking program does not automatically qualify you as lifelong smoker.
If you have realized the problems that you were not able to overcome in your previous attempts, you are in a better position to start on your next attempt. At least you now recognized those problems and you can create a plan with better strategies of approaching those issues. For instance, if you are still hooked to smoking, but would like to quit, you might try a different approach. One of the best ways is to quit smoking slowly.
Not everyone who wishes to kick the habit can do it one time and at once. Many people have difficulty doing this and end up cold turkey in their efforts. If you take the effort slowly and just do it a step at a time, the process would be easier. Cutting back a few cigarettes each day can make you minimize your smoking habit, without feeling completely agonized by your situation.
An important thing that should be considered when trying to quit slowly is you have to keep yourself busy especially in the period when you are not smoking. If you have selected some periods when you must not take any cigarettes, try to make that period as the most preoccupied time of all. This would mean you keep both your minds and hands full. If you are idle, the urge would become so high and you would feel your hands itch wanting to reach out for a stick of cigarette again and for all you know you are back into your habit again.
If you feel a very strong urge to smoke during these times, immediately set out a specific task for you to do. Having a cigarette substitute like chewing gum may be a very big help when you are at the brink of giving in to your temptation. Regardless of how heavy you smoke, you should not cut out more than two cigarette sticks per day unless you have already established a successful pattern.
If you have gone a week and has successfully cut your cigarettes two in a day then start the next week cutting two more from your daily consumption. Going slow will give you few benefits. You can recognize problems as they arise and build your self-confidence as you go through the process. At most, you can find your health slowly getting back in shape and you will have added motivation to cut back cigarettes even more. Of course, it is still best to quit smoking at once but this method is not effective and possible to everyone.
Trying to make your attempt to quit smoking, this time, to succeed would ask of you serious and earnest commitment. Let your strong desire to kick the habit truly motivate you. You need to recognize problems that threaten to disrupt your efforts and deal with them immediately. Try to create new habits in place of the old to guarantee a much healthier lifestyle. Take time to recognize the little benefits of smoking that are coming out and improving your life. This appreciation of the positive little changes that happen in your life, particularly on your health, is essential to your success in completely breaking free from the habit of smoking.

