Asking Yourself Why Cant I Get Pregnant? – There is Hope!
October 10, 2009 by Leslie Bogaerts
Filed under pregnancy
Most people tend to think getting pregnant is quite simple, when in fact this is not necessarily the case. After months or perhaps even years of attempts at becoming pregnant, you are probably asking over and over again, “Why can’t I get pregnant?”
The first thing you should know is that youre not alone. So many women go through the same thoughts and feelings, constantly blaming themselves for the fact that they havent been able to conceive in months or years.
On the flip side is the hope you can grab hold of, as you consider the multitudes of ladies who, despite feeling the odds were stacked against them, did indeed conceive a child or children.
Getting Pregnant is not an Exact Science
Becoming pregnant is not a certainty by any means. For a lot of women who have struggled, the simple act of refusing to question or “try” anymore was enough to enable them to finally conceive.
Nonetheless, methods do exist which can boost your chances for becoming pregnant. Statistically, 75% of pregnancies come about after trying for longer than a month; therefore, if you choose the correct method and apply determination, it can happen — even if not immediately.
Talk To Your Doctor
A visit with your doctor should be first on your to-do list. Though there are plenty of women out there asking, “Why can’t I get pregnant?”, the majority have absolutely nothing wrong with them. That said, there can sometimes be some sort of medical condition that warrants a doctor’s expertise.
Many women lose hope when their doctor announces that the odds are not in favor of their getting pregnant. Doctors only know so much, though, and certainly cannot predict outcomes as they only deal in one area of medicine; there are many other avenues to try. Natural remedies that have long been used for women in many different cultures often prove successful where other types of medical treatments may fail.
Important: Don’t Give Up!
You should bear in mind that a number of factors can influence your chances of getting pregnant. Your age, stress and health can have a real impact. However, if you keep trying and find methods that even the doctors dont know about then you could join a group of many women who were told they never get pregnant but gave birth to healthy children!
Remember that it might take time, but it will be worth it in the end. Stop beating yourself up and asking yourself why cant I get pregnant? Instead, take comfort in the fact that nature will do whats right if you give it a little helping hand.

