Explaining What To Anticipate When A New Baby Is Born
September 6, 2010 Filed under pregnancy
The impact of a baby on a new parent can be astonishing. Suddenly, everything about your life changes. You no longer have the time to be irresponsible and the carefree days of being childless are over. The changes can be drastic, and it is important for you to be ready for them.
Prepare to be tired and to stay tired for a good few months. Babies are notorious for not allowing their parents to sleep, crying for food every five minutes and messing in their diaper every ten. Sometimes, it’s all a parent can do just not collapsing into a crumpled heap some nights.
Such exhaustion can make many people weary, and it is not uncommon for new parents to snap at each other during this period. Be strong, communicate with one another, and you can make it through the dark days of newborn night yelling.
Socially, babies can have a pretty big impact. People are always going to want to see the baby, including relatives who live far away yet still expect you to make the time to visit.
When you are only getting a few hours of uninterrupted sleep, going out for drinks and socializing with your friends suddenly becomes much less appealing than the idea of rest. Your friends, especially the single and childless ones, may not understand this and may resent you for it. That’s just the way it is.
Mothers find themselves worried about their kids, sometimes for no reason, and may become overwhelmed. This is just the maternal instinct kicking in, and is nothing to worry about.
Fathers tend to feel the testosterone possessiveness of their mate and offspring; although all men deal with this differently, it is important to be aware of this and prepared for how it will turn out.
And most important, the needs of one become the needs of two or three. People can no longer afford to be focused on just themselves; they have a little one to think about now.
Being prepared for the changes can make the transition to parenthood much easier. Being supported by family and friends also greatly helps.
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